Proverbs 18:3

Fools find no pleasure in understanding
    but delight in airing their own opinions. - Proverbs 18:3

Dear Heavenly Father,

Give me the desire to gain understanding that is so strong that I don't even form an opinion about matters until I've heard every possible angle.  I want to be done with quick judgments and strong early opinions.  I want to let you teach me through your word and through the people around me.  I want to fully understand what is going on in the lives of the people I love.  Open my ears and my heart to compassionately listen and respond.  Shut my mouth until I am totally sure that what I am going to say will bless people and not hurt them. 

Amen

Pastor Don Patterson 

It takes great strength and love to listen to another with an open heart. 

Additional Reading: James 1